You know, when a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower”. Doesn’t matter how much sun it gets, without water, bit of daily TLC it will simply just fade away.
Relationships? Well, If you love someone and they reject and neglect you, if there is very little TLC, you gotta move on, there’s no point in running around in circles for someone when there’s no reward.
I had a friend that did a lot of marriage and relationship counselling, I asked what is the major issue in relationship problems. Is it being unfaithful, not seeing eye to eye, lack of communication, what is it that causes many people to split? Was a simple reply, “Not enough TLC”?
Yes, those little hugs, simple notes, occasional SMS, little gifts for no reason, date nights, all those little TLC thingies’ that make our hearts go “Pitter Patter” and let us feel like we are young lover again.
Sad part about it? When I asked the same person what is the number one cause of infidelity, what is the key ingredient that starts people to look at others? Well, it’s also TLC he told me. Yep, when you’re not getting TLC from the one you love and you start getting it from another, a random compliment, a gentle smile, some flirting. Sooner or later the little neglected flower inside of you will start to feel the sunshine and start to “sprout”.
So if you want to keep the love of your life on the line? Try a little tenderness.
Statistically? “We know that it costs more to acquire a new customer (roughly seven times) than it does to sell to an existing customer, so it makes sense to spend much more of your marketing effort “Giving some TLC” with people who know you rather than with absolute strangers.”
Ok, so we SPAM them with email marketing campaigns, we send them Happy Birthday to you, but end it with, “Time to Renew”, Merry Xmas, Happy New Year, Valentine’s day, you name it. But, we often end it with a salutation that leads to a prod to a Sale.
Sort of like buying your wife a mop, or your husband a lawn mower for a gift (or to be politically correct, either way around) The sentiment is nice but they know what you really want!
Drop the, “and by the way part” of those emails or phone calls and just a simple say “Hi” and say thanks for being my customer, I appreciate you. Send a reward, offer a discount, give them something that doesn’t require them to buy something.
Don’t always offer the mop or the lawn mower, start sending some roses, or maybe give them a call and hum a few bars of Grenade…I’d catch a grenade for you, throw my hand on a blade for you..Yeh Yeh
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